Sunday, March 27, 2011

My Dad's Retirement - 31/01/2011

Hi All,

                                       This time I thought, Rather than my feelings and thoughts I should reflect here the words directly from me... and I thought the apt occasion to start with would be My Dad's retirement - 31/1/2011. Firstly I have to accept a fact that, I never thought the Occasion would be such a success and my Dad had such a great respect among his colleagues and society. There was a Function arranged at his office, and we were actually lucky to have some of our relatives who made it for the occasion.

                                        Many of Dad's superiors as well as reportees spoke so great about my Dad and it gave me a great boost to speak out my mind about my Dad in front of that gathering. Here are the words direct from my heart and mouth...

Good evening to all..

You all might very well know that we are 2 children for our father Mr. Madireddi Venkatadri Garu, or if you don’t know you can easily recognize us by the similarities in our shape & appearances. (My brother interrupted and said “Shape is not his fault) everyone laughs.

A simple example of my dad’s sincerity and dedication, we never knew our native place which is said to be Kirlampudi near Kakinada. I remember when I was very small kid we went there only once when my Great grandmother was alive. Dad came he to Srisailam Project in 1978, got married in 1981, I was born in 1983 & brother in 1985. And today (2011) we are here as you all can see. So, for me if anyone asks about my native place then I will definitely say its Srisailam Project.

Regarding my mom Mrs. M Geethavani Garu, I think you know her well as Hindi teacher and she recently also got retired after 18 years of service. One more quality of my father, he will never go against rules and I has seen the struggle he faced every time I came here to my parents in holidays. It’s not only me but everyone here knows the problems one has to face for being upfront on rules.

Earlier, while studying I never even thought how dad was managing everything my engineering fees which was Rs. 45000/- per year etc., luckily my brother saved on my dad’s pocket by getting a free engineering seat (Rs. 8000/- per year).

One thing I wanted to reiterate here is whatever we are today, it’s only because of our Father. Thanks Dad for everything. And for our parents till now we did nothing great, but we as children of our parents promise today that we will do all that we are supposed to in your Respect & Love.

Regarding my relatives, who are present here I wanted to thank everyone for being here on this occasion, which with you presence has become special for us. I don’t want to thank them actually as they are my family and there is no need for formalities in a family. It’s just to let the others know that they are also here on this occasion.


Lastly I request everyone present here, even though retired kindly extend your cooperation to our father in all the ways he might require.


Thanking one and all…


It was truly an emotional moment for me, and Today after almost 2 months I tried remembering that day 31/01/2011 and share with you.

Thursday, January 27, 2011

mR. pErFeCt

I am Nobody,
Nobody is perfect,
Therefore, I am perfect!


Salman Khan, Hrithik Roshan, Shahrukh khan, Ranbeer Kapoor, Mahesh Babu etc., are these guyz only perfect men we have?  Aishwarya, Bipasha, Pamela etc., are these are the only ladies with perfect figure?  Does a husband and wife be perfect couple only if they have lots of kids?  Do perfect husbands earn lotz of money each year?  A wife can be perfect only when she cooks deliciously?

People having many friends can only be perfect?  Tons of life experience makes people perfect?  Failure never even dares to touch perfect people?

No!  You can be sure that they aren’t!  It’s not just all of this but there is a lot more…

I am perfect but I am skinny.  I am perfect but I struggle with overweight.  I am Mr. Perfect but Work out in a Gym sounds a Joke to me.  I am perfect but I can’t lift weights as I suffer from back pain.  I am perfect but I am handicapped.

Even women can face the same struggle as men to sound perfect, they might be tiny, heavy, short, fake etc., and the women whom we think are perfect, might not be so naturally but may be artificially.

A husband and wife with a single child are perfect.  A Husband and wife with 5 kids are also perfect.  A husband and wife who can’t conceive and adopt kids are also perfect.  A husband and wife having their own kids and also adopt more children are also perfect.  A husband and wife with no kids are also perfect as they don’t need them.

A man who stays at home is a perfect husband.  A man who owns a big business is also a perfect husband.  A farmer is a perfect husband.  A man who changes his career after 15 years is also a perfect husband.  A man who doesn’t know anything to earn out a living is also a perfect husband.

Can’t a wife be perfect if she doesn’t cook because she even works and gets tired after coming back from office?  Can’t a wife be perfect if she cooks only vegetarian food? Can’t a wife be perfect if she doesn’t like cooking?  Can’t a wife be perfect if she is a chef at a big restaurant?  Can’t a wife be perfect if she cooks only Maggie noodles?

‘There’s no such thing as a perfect partner, just perfect for me.’

I am perfect having only 2 buddies and sharing my thoughts & feelings with only them.  I am perfect having hundreds of my Facebook friends with whom I keep in touch regularly.  I am perfect with my gang of friends.  I am perfect with my famous friends.  I am perfect with my pets who are my only friends.

I have seen & known all over the world and I am perfect.  I am perfect by not knowing even my hometown.  I am perfect and I still live with my parents.  I am perfect and I am happy with what I am.  I am perfect by not knowing what exactly I want to be.

I am perfect and I lose hope only when I fail many times.  I am perfect and I win the very first time.  I am perfect but I don’t admit my mistake.  I am perfect and I know that failure is the stepping stone for success & growth.  I am perfect and I never fail since I do only what I know.

My face does have scars and dark complexion and I am perfect.  I had short grey hair when I was 30 and I have long brown hair at 50 only because I am perfect.  I am perfect but I wear a wig. I am perfect and have a waist size XXXXXXXX.  I am perfect and have a fair complexion. I am also perfect and I have dark complexion.

I am perfect and I came from every part of this beautiful world and I can be found anywhere – even when you tried looking into a Mirror.

The way we came into this world (Born) and the way we are now, we are unique!!

Yeah!  I am Mr. Perfect and I am every one of you!

Human life is all about growing and changing, a perfect person is a person who is growing. To grow it requires us to make mistakes and compromises, perfection requires mistakes and compromises.

Boring would be the life if we were perfect in every sense and there would be nothing to correct.
It doesn’t have to be about how we compare to others…it’s who we truly are, each one of us, which matters…

Let us rejoice in our imperfections. Let us celebrate our imperfections. For, imperfect is what we are.
People should be taught never to pursue perfection - only excellence. People should accept that we are imperfect. Imperfect is interesting, EXCITING!!!

Let us delete from our mind that perfection is the only good thing in the world. No, imperfection is good. It is in the course of imperfection that we turn out to be improved. There is nothing more to be improved in perfection. It is the journey (becoming improved & enhanced), not the objective that makes life exciting.

"Last but not the least in this world of artistic, visual and accomplishment based perfectionism here I raise a flag for perfection as our own inherent character that requires no change, no big money or not even customary of dimension. Perfection is the individuality that everybody is by just being themselves."